I prefer Emily’s spicy side. I think that side of her is a much better representation of her true personality than the one you see on the show. The whole prim and proper perfectly spoken Emily, I could do without. When she told Kalon, “You should be a politician…because that’s the biggest load of bullshit I have ever heard”, I almost clapped. Especially when she reported to everyone all of the nasty things he had been saying about her online. You can’t post, “Sorry I’m not sorry” and then come on national television and try to pretend that you’re not a jerk. “I’m flattered you follow me on Twitter”, was the best comeback line he could come up with. I guess it’s easier for him to be witty when he’s at home and has more time to think about what to post. Emily then followed up with, “I hope that you find some faith in something other than your Prada shoes and rented helicopter”. He’s definitely a better fit for Bachelor Pad. Maybe he and Vienna can hook up. Spending 5 minutes watching this show can truly change your life. We now know the difference between confidence and arrogance. Ryan really cleared that up for us when Chris Harrison asked him, “Is it possible that you really are an arrogant ass?” His answer of course was NO! But it became clear to me that confident is what you think you are, but when you constantly talk about yourself…it becomes arrogance…and that definition my dear Ryan should have your photo next to it in Webster’s dictionary. It seems there were several people confused about Ryan. Chris Harrison was confused as to what Emily saw in Ryan in the first place and bachelor Chris was confused about what Ryan’s real feelings were for Emily. Emily was charmed by Ryan’s good looks and sweet talking ways and for Ryan, it wasn’t 100 percent about Emily. He wasn’t just looking to get to know Emily…he was looking for a wife (AKA prize or trophy…Ryan’s words not mine). Bottom line is they were both really attracted to one another, but there wasn’t a spark. Ryan said, “I’ve been a bachelor for a long time in Augusta”. I’m not really surprised about that. Maybe he should have gone online to trophywife.com instead of coming on The Bachelorette. He’s way too into himself to ever really be into anyone else. I wish I could create a photo album of Chris’ expressions on this show. I think he’s a “don’t poke the bear” kind of guy too. He and Brad should hang out and talk about what they did wrong with Emily. Chris said he’s ready to settle down and he’s so grateful to Emily for helping to open his eyes to falling in love. So what better way to start your healthy journey into finding love than to take the leap on Bachelor Pad!? Yeah I truly think that you’ll find the love of your life there buddy. I don’t think that it was a surprise to anyone when Chris Harrison announced that Ryan would not be the next Bachelor, but I definitely think they set Sean up to be. I haven’t heard any rumors yet, but I think this kid looks pretty promising. He didn’t have any major breakdowns. I didn’t see an angry side. He is well spoken. Emily clearly thought he was “perfect”…just maybe not perfect for her. I think ABC would have a winner there if they could snag him for next season. We will have to see. Tune in next week for the THREE HOUR LONG finale...really?! Does it really need to be that long? Just eenie meenie miney mo or something if it’s that hard. I’ve got a quarter you can borrow Emily. Heads Arie, Tails Jef…either way you’ve got yourself a cute rich dude who’s in love with you. Can’t be that bad!